So sad. :(

My Mom called last night to tell me that her brother has passed away quite suddenly.
I am so sad for his family. What a shock this must be for them.
They live in California and come to visit us occasionally. This picture was in 2004 (Sorry for the poor quality.) I'm sure we've seen them since then but I can't find a more recent picture.
I remember the first time I met Debbie, his wife.
It was the summer of 1985. I was 15 years old and newly married and pregnant with Kayleigh. Dennis and I had moved to southern California just before Uncle Terry married Debbie.
My grandparents had us meet them in Fontana for the wedding. It was about an hour away from where we were living at the time.
I recall that Terry and Debbie made us feel very welcome and unjudged. That really meant a lot to me at a time in my life when I felt so very judged.
My cousins are really great people which must be a credit to Terry and Debbie. I've never been really close to them but my impression has always been that they are very mature and respectful.
Roger and I always comment on how the boys conduct themselves when they are here to visit. There's never a need to ask for help with extra chairs or dinner preparations because they are always right there doing what needs to be done before you have a chance to ask. Good boys. I'm sure my Uncle was quite proud of his sons. I'm sure he was proud of all his children.
My heart breaks to think of his family without him. His passing was very sudden, just like his father (my grandfather) nearly 14 years ago. Which must be both shocking and comforting. I know that their faith is strong though. And I hope it will bring them comfort.
Much love to Aunt Debbie and the cousins.